What do you prefer?
All of us, no matter what size we are, have a choice: Do we want to wear something that makes us feel sexy? Or do we want to wear something comfy? The million-dollar question is: Why can't we have both?
I have been wearing lingerie my whole adult life; being single or married made no difference. I didn't wear lingerie for my boyfriend or husband. I always picked out something that I felt sexy in; for me and only me. I mean do we even really know what men like anyway? From my experience, most would rather we wear nothing, right ladies? Let's face it, sometimes we just want to wear our penguin jammies while having a glass of our favorite box of wine and reading our favorite book because it feels so nice not to try. But what if you didn't have to try to be sexy?
Don't get me wrong, there are those nights when sexy is necessary. Yes, you know what night I'm talking about. The one where you want to look as sexy, clean, and fresh as you feel? I just took a shower and shaved for the first time in a month feeling.
Making the right choice
As a Boudoir and Erotica Photographer, I LOVE lingerie, and I know what flatters the female body… and what doesn't. There are so many companies out there that offer gorgeous and not-so-gorgeous pieces. With my clients, I am extremely picky about what I will recommend. I learned early on that if she doesn't feel sexy, then she won't be able to "perform" for me. She needs to feel sexy to be sexy.
Where to shop
In all the years I have been buying lingerie, some good, some bad, and some so nasty that I couldn't even bring it to Goodwill, However, there is one company that is always consistent in quality, affordability, and yummy. That's Yandy. Now don't get me wrong, I have plenty of lingerie from great companies like, amazon and the Lion's Den, but with Yandy, I have never needed to exchange, return, or burn my items. I send all of my Boudoir clients to them to find great lingerie for their sessions with me. I would say 90% of my ladies are wearing Yandy products. I am not endorsed by them and I do not get a kickback to promote their products. Those of you who know me, know I give credit where credit is due. So today's blog is all about sexy shit from Yandy.
Do you have another side?
Ok, so maybe you're not into looking like the sexy girl next door. Maybe you want to look like a "I'm going to stomp on your neck bitch" Dominatrix. Don't you worry, they have plenty for you too? I mean seriously, who doesn't like a little variety of personalities?
As reminder ladies, you don't need clothes to make you feel sexy. It's what's under the clothes that matters :) If you want to check out Yandy for their latest trends and sales, just click here. I can't wait to see what you chose.
Tennille Melcher
Photographer & CEO